For whatever reason you wanted to read this, it is important that an open minded person like you wants to know and will share it with friends who needs to.
1.Do not insult his personality
Yes, roasting is cute but never attack his personality. Through the years of emotional distress, the only person that has been truly there for him has been himself. Attacking him is like harming his best friend.
2.Never call him annoying
The fact that he can come out of his shell and be playful with you is a beautiful thing, but because he rarely feels that level of joy he may get carried away. Never call him annoying because of this or he will fear to be himself around you.
3. Do not invalidate his emotions
Yes, there’ll be times he will be sad for absolutely no reason, but do not tell him he is false for feeling the way he feels. This will cause him to be afraid of expressing himself with you and damage the communication aspect of the relationship.
4. Show interest in his hobbies
It will make him his whole week for you to ask him about the things he cares about. Whether it his favorite show, music, sports, or video games. it will show him you care about the little things and reassure him that you love him.
5. All he wants is your attention
When he’s talking to you(especially about something special to him). Give him your eyes and ears. Attention is just as important to him as it is to you, and your lack of attention will make him feel unimportant.
6. Be his best friend
O can guarantee that you are already his. You are the most important person in his life, he should be yours.
7. Be faithful
This is important in all relationships, but especially one involving someone suffering from emotional distress. It will hurt him much less to break up with for someone else than to go behind his back and cheat on him.
8. Do not run away when he’s needy
He NEEDS you and you’re definitely gonna know it. If he’s being too much, just let him know, but do not ignore him when he is. When he expresses that he needs you, it’s a cry for help and reassurance.
Our society says a man should be macho💪💪. A man should not cry or be emotional cos that is a girl’s thing and “it’s fucking gay”. So we find ourselves doing everything we can not to show our emotions, not to talk much even when we are hurt, not to shed a tear even when we are broken. We take that into our relationships and love that’s supposed to feel like love feels like pain and heartbreak all the time till you finally give up on it. Don’t hate yourself because you are an emotional boy. Be YOU! It’s okay to cry when you are hurt, it’s okay to want to be hugged when you feel broken inside , it is okay to want a constant assurance that you are loved. You are a man too and the one who is meant to love you will love every bit of you. Stay 💪 and stay💟. It’s okay to be you.
Finishing off with this video. A must watch!