If you are reading this, you must be darn beautiful. How do I know? Because I advised that it is shared to beautiful women. It is not possible that you are not, once you are reading this. Absolutely impossible!
This is absolutely helpful advice for all ladies but my emphasis is made on Christian ladies because they will definitely not get this advice from church. Church gives a lot of advice on how to attract and keep a man; this is absolutely irrelevant when your DREAM man or the RIGHT man is not even in the picture to start with. The church places a lot of pressure on single women to get married but hardly does much to create required avenues to meet the Right man. It is okay if you are happy being single but if you are not and you agree with most of these statements I just made, and then this post is for you.
I am not going to talk about how to keep a man or attract a man because I believe you’ve learnt enough of that at relationship seminars in church etc. This post emphasizes on Christian ladies because they tend to be depressed about their singlehood because of pressures from the church and also limit their opportunities in finding the right man because of church. They need to realize that the right man will not be dropped from heaven to them because they are praying hard; they first of all need to be found. The bible says that he that finds a wife finds a good thing. So you need to put yourself out there for you to be found.
In this post, I am going to give you an alternative you probably never considered because of church and delve into the HOW’s as a Christian woman; the use of technology (internet). Online dating such as the use of dating apps and social media has become such a taboo thing among Christians. But before you click away, pause and read what I have to say. It might change your life!
I understand your fear and discomfort about using dating apps. Some of the worries of Christian ladies in using dating apps to find their partners are among these; when they are seen on dating apps, they may seem desperate and promiscuous, they find it embarrassing, it is not a Christian thing to do etc. These are but a few reasons that seem plausible for some Christians. There are many others that even think of it as sin. Can you believe that?
God in his own wisdom as a creator has given human beings the ability to create and this ability which is in the image of God has been used to create these wonderful apps for dating. Guess what? I totally understand the pressures and the discomfort and this post is going to underline very easy and simple ways to find your dream man effortlessly without a dating app without the baggage you worry about.
The use of social media!
In 2019, it is estimated that there will be around 2.77 billion social media users around the globe, up from 2.46 billion in 2017. Out of these numbers, more than half of them are single and many more of them interact each second. Many marriages were made possible through social media. Social media is a preferred choice for finding your desired partner especially for Christian women because it is very normal to have a social media account now, it doesn’t look like you are coming on too strong, neither does it feel that way, it is very usual, easy and quick.
There are many social media platforms available that you can use. However, Instagram and Facebook is always recommended. They are recommended because of their graphic quality since it is an important factor to see your potential spouse or suitor in pictures and videos. Don’t say, I am Christian; I don’t like taking pictures and being public ‘blablabla’. You must like it! You have to like it! That is if you want him to find you. It is a big world with limitless possibilities and people, thanks to social media. It is hard work to find the right man and to keep him. So if you want to be hooked, be prepared for the hard work.
As a digital marketer and social commentator for years, I am darn sure how to get this done and I can assure you that if you practice what I am going to show you in the next post, you will have your dream man on your arm in a few months walking down the aisle. Don’t let anybody deceive you into believing that there is something wrong with you. If you are not rude, poor hygiene, talkative or do anything that will put off a man, then these tips I will show you in the next post will do the miracle God has been sending your way all this while you’ve prayed. There is no demon fighting you, you just need to put yourself out there for him to find you because trust me, God won’t parcel him up and mail him to your address.
I will carefully put down features and tips on how to use these dating apps in ways you didn’t know possible. Subscribe to stay updated. You can follow me on facebook, instagram or twitter too. Share this to every BEAUTIFUL lady you know. Once she is beautiful, she should read this too.