It was my first week in the University and as a Christian, one of the first things I wanted to do was find a fellowship or church to be a part of. One evening, I heard a knock on my door. Behind the door, stood a very pretty girl, she courteously asked me to come with her to a Christian cell meeting of which I obliged.
I walked into this meeting with an expectation of a usual fellowship as I’ve been to many of such. Then a question was asked, “How many of you have ever been in love?” I smiled and relaxed in my seat only to realize I was the only one in that position. Everybody else had their hands lifted. At this point, I thought these people had no idea what falling in love meant. And probably I had experienced what they meant but I simply did not refer to it as love. Then they were asked what falling in love meant to them or made them do? They gave so many examples I found outrageous and very much unreal. Actions and thoughts I had never had towards another human being.
I left that meeting very worried. Is something wrong with me? Why have I never experienced this seemingly powerful emotion of falling in love? I asked my friends and family( those that knew me well) they gave their own thoughts but I was never too sure. And everybody I have asked seems to have fallen in love before. What do you think is the reason why I have never been in love?