Why won’t men confidently speak like this about Pedophilia when the raped has been attacked instead of the rapist for many years by our society. It has become a song on the lips of men and even women in kaba and slit (traditional clothing) who may have even been raped before but covering it up because it is seen as a shame. They continue to extend this phenomenon by saying on national television, ” Why won’t young girls of today be raped when they dress indecently…wearing short skirts and bikinis. Exposing their breasts and buttocks?” Older women sit on national television to utter these words everyday. Many other people also say such things all the time on our streets and homes. What kind of society are we forming?
No! I am not saying women should walk down the street naked or dress ‘indecently’. What I am saying is that, no kaba, slit, agbada or gown will stop a rapist from raping someone. People should understand that rape is less about sex than any other factor. When someone is raped, there’s nothing wrong with the victim but there’s everything wrong with the perpetrator. We should stop giving unnecessary excuses to rapists for such acts…the fact that a lady is in bikini or a mini skirt, does not mean you should forcibly have sex with her. Since when did we become animals?
I am trying so hard not to talk about the Pedophilic comment made by these men. This nonsense has been tolerated for far too long and now blame is being shifted on to children?!! What can possibly arouse an adult when he or she sees the naked body of a baby…or a child as young as 5 or 7. These are children! Many children in certain parts of the world never wear clothes because they are children…not sexual beings.
The point of my post is simple! If you are a man or woman and you can’t control yourself when you see another in a particular clothing and you have to rape the person, please it’s not normal. Get help! The person could be in anything, it’s still not an excuse, good enough to rape.
If you are sexually attracted to babies…children then please see a psychologist, it’s not normal. Children can’t give consent! Don’t listen to these men and most of the society who now puts focus on victims as if they are the problem when in fact the problem is with the perpetrators.
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