I wonder how long girls are going to stay in denial and ignorant of who guys really are. Okay, I am not talking about the handsome and rich dudes who melt at the sight of your stunning beauty, buy all flowers in the world for you, buy you a car and even a house because you are special and dear to his heart. Well, this is every girl’s fantasy; the story of prince charming and the beautiful princess(ugly betty must have had these fantasies too).
The funny thing is, girls, begin to think about these fantasies while their ‘boyfriends’ have no idea who they really are. What do you expect from a guy whom you just met? What do you expect from a guy whom you give ‘your all to’-including your ‘vagige’; Pardon me, I am just a typical African guy who cannot say the ‘v’ word. It is really weird how the ‘vagige’ is part of the human body but we cannot say it without feeling a strange heaviness on the tongue. All am saying is, if you just met the guy and you are already having sex, trust me it is not because you are special.
It is just funny how ignorant girls look when they say, “Sex on the first date or later in the relationship makes no difference”. Sorry girls but I had to laugh at that. SEX makes a HUGE difference. If a girl gets married to a guy she slept with on a first date or too frequently in their dating life, there are just only two reasons for them.
- It is a MIRACLE- Relationships like this barely end in marriage. Those that end in marriage is usually because of all the wrong reasons.
- The sex must be the best in the world!!. Let’s just hope the guy never cheats on you because if he does, he will be gone forever!
Guys are hunters. Being hunters excites them and makes them feel like real men. It hurts to burst your bubbles of fantasies but that is how men are wired. If all your relationship stands for is sex, his hunting instincts will NOT keep him dining on a deer, he will soon want an elephant.
Let me throw some light on how this works. Girls who want to keep their man so bad that all they do is have sex with them are definitely treading on thin ice. There are millions of ‘vagiges’ in the world but there can only be YOU. If you never get your man to know the real YOU and love the real YOU, then sorry girls he can easily dump you for the next ‘vagige’.
If you are not compatible with the guy, trust me sex can barely hold the relationship for…..EVER. A lot of men will stay in a relationship for sex but true love, trust, faithfulness and all those beautiful things that make a truly long lasting relationship becomes non-existent.
Of course, a lot of guys may dump you after a few ‘sexless’ dates. At least you will know if he really likes you.
Have you ever wondered why a lot of beautiful girls like this always end up single and unmarried? A lot of them give the excuse that they are not ready to settle for any man but in truth, they simply do not get the men to stick with them. A lot of beautiful girls think the main criteria for having a man is looking seductively gorgeous. Well, I kind of agree with them. A woman with no personality but looks will have a man temporarily but never permanently.
A lot of girls feel their boyfriends love them when they shower them with gifts and money. That is their prince charming.
Well in the real world, things are quite different- okay let’s be real and say it is VERY different. We find guys doing these things for girls every day.The fact is if a guy buys you too many gifts and keeps giving you money whilst you are not his wife, it is because;
1. He is definitely rich and probably does the same for other girls.
However there are guys who are as broke as church mice but still buy you gifts? Well…
- You must have been his first love or perhaps you broke his virginity. Clear the smirk off your face. Though they never really talk about it, they never forget nor let go of their first true sex(love).
The guy feels not good enough for any other girl. You know too much about him; the good, bad and ugly. He does not want to start all over again with another girl.
4.A convenient source of sexual gratification. Without you, he cannot have his sexual urges satisfied at least not as fast.
- How can I leave this out. He loves YOU.
Am not saying sex is evil, it is a beautiful thing created by God for a purpose. For many men, 90% of their mindset for entering into a relationship is to gain sexual gratification. It will do you a lot of good if you were worth more than that.
“I love you because you are smart, you have a lovely smile, you radiate positivity into my life, you are the light in my life that allows me to grow and glow”….don’t let these words be meaningless poetry on the lips of men who needs their sexual urges satisfied. Allow a man to genuinely say, he loves you. Sorry guys, I had to spill.
If you think I am not saying the truth, I dare you to disagree.