When I am looking at someone else, you should look uncomfortable. That’s beautiful… When I touch someone else like you’d want to be touched, hit my chest and make sobbing sounds.That’s hot! When someone is taking all my attention, be angry and walk out of the event and let me run after you. So arousing…When someone is trying to grind on me at a party pull me aside like I belong to you. Shiee wow. When someone keeps sending me text messages and calls me at odd hours inquire and throw tantrums about it. And when you do the things I have mentioned, enjoy it while I do the same.
Ha! That is crazy! I am just kidding….well…just a little. That is what the soap operas or telenovellas and the romantic movies will do to you. But on a more serious note, there is something sexy about your partner being a little jealous…mind the emphasis; A LITTLE JEALOUS.
How so unattractive and weird if your partner is not in any way jealous when it comes to you. When someone else is grinding up on you at a party, trying to consistently take your attention from your partner, touching you inappropriately or you doing some touching…and all your partner does is just be NORMAL. Ha! That is totally weird. Try them intentionally and your partner might find you someone to continue doing them with. What would you think about your partner who is like this? Confident or just someone who simply isn’t that into you.
I don’t know what you think about a partner whose response to, “I am so sorry. I drank too much last night and cheated…” is, ”Okay, did you use protection?” Obviously, to this person, as long as you are still here, there will still be sex and there will still be a ‘relationship’.
I am not disrespecting open relationships as they call it, but what the F%&K is that though? Is that even a relationship? That is like being single, if you ask me. I placed this question in my stories on instagram and Oh my God the answers that I had about jealousy! You can follow me on instagram @awesomerichy or click here.
I was told that biologically, monogamy is not natural and that jealousy is an idea that creates dependency. But well, if it isn’t monogamy and you have no aorta of jealousy when it comes to me, I am definitely seeing that as a RED flag. Even God says with confidence…without apology that he is a jealous God. And I am sorry if I get jealous just a little bit sometimes because I love you but I was created in the image of God and I ought to display some traits of God. If you are dating a lady who is not in any way jealous or a guy who says he is too confident that he has no aorta of jealousy, then that could be a RED flag too. Quit that RELATIONSHIP NOW! Why, are they better than God?
Being a little jealous is okay-it’s natural but jealousy can also be very dangerous. Staying with a controlling partner who is extremely jealous could be VERY DANGEROUS too. Don’t spend a day in a relationship where your partner can be abusive and controlling because of jealousy. When you become scared and afraid to make your partner jealous, it is no relationship to be in. So please don’t get it twisted either. Be safe in love!